Birthing Experience
When people talk about birthing experiences, most people find it a joyous occasion, but there are some who have difficulties and it can be the scariest yet most wonderful experience of their lives.
I was 16 when my niece, Victoria was born. My sister had her 3 months early. There was nothing that the doctor’s could do at the time to stop my sister from giving birth to my beautiful niece. Victoria’s weight was only a pound and a half. She fit into her father’s one hand. My niece was in the hospital for 3 months, she was born with scoliosis, a tethered cord, and spina bifida. The only people that were able to see her were her parents. But, they were only allowed to hold her to feed her, even then the doctors did not want them to do so, but in order for mother and baby bonding, my sister did some of the time. She was born in Pittsburgh hospital, which made it even more difficult, because it was about 2 hours away from where most of the family lived. My sister basically lived at the hospital for the 3 months. When she came home, she had to have a breathing machine, when we held her or took her anywhere, even around the house; we also had to take the machine.
I didn’t realize how severe my niece was when she was born, I knew it was bad, but I was 16 and I wasn’t able to see her, so at the time, I couldn’t imagine the intensity of the problems that she was born with until she came home.
My niece is now 15 and is wonderful. She still has some problems walking, and with her bladder. But from then until now, she is doing wonderful. At the time when she was born until she was about 3 the doctors believed that she would not even be able to walk at all on her. Now she does! I believe, in the 15 years of her life she has had 13 surgeries, and still has about two more to go, but right now they are not a necessity.
Preterm birth is a problem worldwide, but was not actually acknowledged until recently. (Vashishtha, 2009). About 28% of the 4 million annual neonatal deaths are due to preterm births; about 12.9 million babies are born preterm, with a global prevalence of 9.6%. (Vashishtha, 2009). The rate of preterm birth is highest in low resource regions. (Vashishtha, 2009). The countries that have the most preterm birth rates are Africa, North America, Asia, Latin America, Caribbean, Oceania, and last Europe. (Vashishtha, 2009).
More research has to be done for preterm births, as of now, high income countries can focus more on preconception birth, and lower income countries can promote prenatal care, treating malnutrion and other important factors to insure a healthy pregnancy. (Vashishtha, 2009).
References:
Vashishtha, Vipin M. "Preterm Birth: A Neglected Entity." Focus 46 (2009): 1071-1072. http://medind.nic.in/ibv/t09/i12/ibvt09i12p1071.pdf. Web. 7 Jan. 2011.
My Childhood Web
The most important people to me when I was a child, were my parents especially my dad, my one sister, my one aunt, and my 4th grade teacher.
My parents raised six girls, my dad was the only one working. He did anything and everything he could to make sure we did not go without. He worked swing shifts, with doing that, he packed my lunch for school, got me off to school, and home from school, he helped me with my homework, and he spent time with me. A lot of time. My dad and I are still very close, he is my best friend. I know through anything I can count on him.
My sister Jenna, I always wanted to be just like her when I was younger. She also helped me with my homework, and was and still is there for me any time I need anything.
My aunt passed away when I was about seven. But before then, she always let her nieces know that we were important to her. She would come over every weekend with us. She read with me, took me shopping. I remember being little, (she had cancer), and she showed me how to take care of her wig, when she was going through chemo-therapy.
My fourth grade teacher, was very creative in the how she taught. She made learning fun. I had a Valentine's Day party at my house, she came to it. She never gave up on her students. She is one of the reason why I chose to direct my life towards, education.
The people in my life, made it possible for me to be a strong adult. They helped me learn how to spread my wings, but if I happened to fall, they were there (and some still are) to help me on my feet again. They took the time out of their lives to be an important person in mine.
My parents raised six girls, my dad was the only one working. He did anything and everything he could to make sure we did not go without. He worked swing shifts, with doing that, he packed my lunch for school, got me off to school, and home from school, he helped me with my homework, and he spent time with me. A lot of time. My dad and I are still very close, he is my best friend. I know through anything I can count on him.
My sister Jenna, I always wanted to be just like her when I was younger. She also helped me with my homework, and was and still is there for me any time I need anything.
My aunt passed away when I was about seven. But before then, she always let her nieces know that we were important to her. She would come over every weekend with us. She read with me, took me shopping. I remember being little, (she had cancer), and she showed me how to take care of her wig, when she was going through chemo-therapy.
My fourth grade teacher, was very creative in the how she taught. She made learning fun. I had a Valentine's Day party at my house, she came to it. She never gave up on her students. She is one of the reason why I chose to direct my life towards, education.
The people in my life, made it possible for me to be a strong adult. They helped me learn how to spread my wings, but if I happened to fall, they were there (and some still are) to help me on my feet again. They took the time out of their lives to be an important person in mine.
Friday, January 7, 2011
Sunday, December 26, 2010
A note of Thanks
I would like to thank each and every one of you, I have learned a great deal from all of you during this course. Through the discussions, it was amazing to see the different ideas that was shared although we had the same readings, and watched the same videos,the blogs, it was wonderful to have the ability to learn about each one of you personally.
Banae,
Everytime I read one of your post or one of your blogs, I learn something new. I see things from a different view point that I wouldn't have seen if it weren't for you. Thank you so much for giving me the chance to have more of an open mind, and for having the ability to see things in a different light.
Thank you all and I wish you the best of luck through your educational career.
Chelsea
Banae,
Everytime I read one of your post or one of your blogs, I learn something new. I see things from a different view point that I wouldn't have seen if it weren't for you. Thank you so much for giving me the chance to have more of an open mind, and for having the ability to see things in a different light.
Thank you all and I wish you the best of luck through your educational career.
Chelsea
Thursday, December 23, 2010
Quote
"Our children ARE our Future"
I'm not exactly sure where this quote came from. I'm pretty sure, I found it a few years ago online when I was looking for quotes for my son's teacher.
This quote speaks to me. Adults do not realize how affected children are by our actions, and how we speak to our children. What we do will greatly effect the children now. What they learn now they will take into the future as them. The way we treat our children, they will most likey treat their children the same, what we teach our children, they will teach theirs. How we act towards others, they will do the same. Children really are our future, and I think as teachers (or inspiring teachers) and any other adult that is around children, should continually remember this.
I'm not exactly sure where this quote came from. I'm pretty sure, I found it a few years ago online when I was looking for quotes for my son's teacher.
This quote speaks to me. Adults do not realize how affected children are by our actions, and how we speak to our children. What we do will greatly effect the children now. What they learn now they will take into the future as them. The way we treat our children, they will most likey treat their children the same, what we teach our children, they will teach theirs. How we act towards others, they will do the same. Children really are our future, and I think as teachers (or inspiring teachers) and any other adult that is around children, should continually remember this.
Saturday, December 11, 2010
Testing for Intelligence
I do not agree with standardized testing. I understand that there has to be a way to know where students stand with learning, what they have learned, what they need to work on and things like that. But as we discussed during this week everybody learns differently, so how is it fair that we test all students the same?
In colleges, if you have a learning disablitly there are other ways to have that student tested, why is it different in middle and high school educations?
I looked at Greece to compare the difference in education standards. I could not find any information on standardized testing, but I did find other interesting information. Education in Greece is cumpulsory for all children ages 6-15 years old. After 15 years of age education is considered formal somewhat as a university level. The article "Education in Greece" states that after 15 years the student will recieve a diploma, or a formal school-leaving certificate, or a degree. The educational system is structed as primary, secondary, and tertiary. Children may begin school as young as 2 1/2 years of age. Charges are to the state and not to the public.
All pupils are considered of equal value.
Teachers have to follow the same curriculum but the method that they use are up to the teachers. In primary grades, most of the classes are taught by the same teacher, except for English, Pys Ed and Music, which are taught by specialized teachers.
Although, some things are the same in European countries and in America, many things are different as well.
http://www.ypepth.gr/en_ec_home.htm
http://www.in2greece.com/blog/2006/12/education-in-greece.html
In colleges, if you have a learning disablitly there are other ways to have that student tested, why is it different in middle and high school educations?
I looked at Greece to compare the difference in education standards. I could not find any information on standardized testing, but I did find other interesting information. Education in Greece is cumpulsory for all children ages 6-15 years old. After 15 years of age education is considered formal somewhat as a university level. The article "Education in Greece" states that after 15 years the student will recieve a diploma, or a formal school-leaving certificate, or a degree. The educational system is structed as primary, secondary, and tertiary. Children may begin school as young as 2 1/2 years of age. Charges are to the state and not to the public.
All pupils are considered of equal value.
Teachers have to follow the same curriculum but the method that they use are up to the teachers. In primary grades, most of the classes are taught by the same teacher, except for English, Pys Ed and Music, which are taught by specialized teachers.
Although, some things are the same in European countries and in America, many things are different as well.
http://www.ypepth.gr/en_ec_home.htm
http://www.in2greece.com/blog/2006/12/education-in-greece.html
Saturday, November 27, 2010
I feel that my niece suffered from (and still does) isolation. When she was born, she has spina bifida, scoliosis, and a tethered cord. Spina bifida is a birth defect, it is when the spinal cord has a split or an opening in it, scoliosis is a condition when the spine bends either to the right or to the left. My niece's condition is severe. She's had many different surgeries to try and help this. The one she had for her scoliosis, it was necessary that she have it, if not the curve to her spine was so severe that it would end up smashing all of her insides. She has always walked different, she sometimes uses a walker, she cannot sit or stand like everybody else,among other things she has to have surgery at least once every 3 years.
Usually children who are born with spina bifida also suffer from a tether cord. The cord becomes tethered because of the surgically closing of the spine and the extra scar tissue. When dealing with a tethered cord, when a child stretches usually the spine is free to move, with this condition it is not. It can damage muscles as well as bladder and bowl problems, orthopedic problems such as loss of sensation in legs and feet. My sister actually has to buy my niece two different pairs of shoes because her feet are different sizes.
My niece has always felt different from other children. She is unable to do the things that others' can do. She can't ride a bike, she can't try outfor sports, or even go on longer walks. As much as other's try, she doesn't feel that she fits. My sister has put her in different groups. Actually, when she has her surgery, the hospital that she goes to specializes in these surgergies. There are many other kids there, that feel the same way as she. They exchange phone numbers, and emails. I think that this helps my niece a lot. Although, my sister and the rest of our family tries to understand what she is going through, we are never going to be able too. Having somebody her age, understanding most of what she is going through, helps her because they are able to share stories with each other. My niece also sings and is very big in many different types of music. She goes to a charter school and specializes in signing. I think this helps her relax her mind.
The middle eastren country and the effects the violence has on it's children.
I think my background in criminal justice is one of the reasons why I would like to find out more about this. When I was in class we would often talk about the war and the violence that is going on in middle eastren countries.
When dealing with violent acts such as war, intrusion of homes, schools and other personal places by soliders children are more likely engaged in antisocial behavior, more likely to be involved in violent acts.(Boxer, Dubow, Huesmann, 2009).
Researchers are concerned with a child's emotional and congnitive development and how violence intereferes with it.(Boxer, Dubow, Huesmann, 2009).
It can and most likely will lead to aggressive behavior. Severly traumatized children, had lower letter grades in school.(Boxer, Dubow, Huesmann, 2009).
Many children that have been subjected to severe violence feel that they are included in it and view themselves as "freedom fighters". (Boxer, Dubow, Huesmann, 2009).
Researchers feel that the community should provide the children with postiive and supportive settings from all levels of the community-family, peers.(Boxer, Dubow, Huesmann, 2009).
They feel that in doing so it protects the children from all the negative influence that occurs from violence and war. (Boxer, Dubow, Huesmann, 2009).
This is a continuing study. The researchers are unsure about how well the support settings will work. But they feel that at least it is something more positive to show the children of communities that only see war and violence.(Boxer, Dubow, Huesmann, 2009).
They feel as long as there is some kind of positive interaction, the children have the ability to see that their is another way other than violence. (Boxer, Dubow, Huesmann, 2009).
References:
Dubow, E., Huesmann, R. L., & Boxer, P. (2009). A Social-Cognitive-Ecological Framework for Understanding. Clinical Child & Family Psychology Review, 12(2), 113-126. Retrieved November 26, 2010, from Education Research Complete
Usually children who are born with spina bifida also suffer from a tether cord. The cord becomes tethered because of the surgically closing of the spine and the extra scar tissue. When dealing with a tethered cord, when a child stretches usually the spine is free to move, with this condition it is not. It can damage muscles as well as bladder and bowl problems, orthopedic problems such as loss of sensation in legs and feet. My sister actually has to buy my niece two different pairs of shoes because her feet are different sizes.
My niece has always felt different from other children. She is unable to do the things that others' can do. She can't ride a bike, she can't try outfor sports, or even go on longer walks. As much as other's try, she doesn't feel that she fits. My sister has put her in different groups. Actually, when she has her surgery, the hospital that she goes to specializes in these surgergies. There are many other kids there, that feel the same way as she. They exchange phone numbers, and emails. I think that this helps my niece a lot. Although, my sister and the rest of our family tries to understand what she is going through, we are never going to be able too. Having somebody her age, understanding most of what she is going through, helps her because they are able to share stories with each other. My niece also sings and is very big in many different types of music. She goes to a charter school and specializes in signing. I think this helps her relax her mind.
The middle eastren country and the effects the violence has on it's children.
I think my background in criminal justice is one of the reasons why I would like to find out more about this. When I was in class we would often talk about the war and the violence that is going on in middle eastren countries.
When dealing with violent acts such as war, intrusion of homes, schools and other personal places by soliders children are more likely engaged in antisocial behavior, more likely to be involved in violent acts.(Boxer, Dubow, Huesmann, 2009).
Researchers are concerned with a child's emotional and congnitive development and how violence intereferes with it.(Boxer, Dubow, Huesmann, 2009).
It can and most likely will lead to aggressive behavior. Severly traumatized children, had lower letter grades in school.(Boxer, Dubow, Huesmann, 2009).
Many children that have been subjected to severe violence feel that they are included in it and view themselves as "freedom fighters". (Boxer, Dubow, Huesmann, 2009).
Researchers feel that the community should provide the children with postiive and supportive settings from all levels of the community-family, peers.(Boxer, Dubow, Huesmann, 2009).
They feel that in doing so it protects the children from all the negative influence that occurs from violence and war. (Boxer, Dubow, Huesmann, 2009).
This is a continuing study. The researchers are unsure about how well the support settings will work. But they feel that at least it is something more positive to show the children of communities that only see war and violence.(Boxer, Dubow, Huesmann, 2009).
They feel as long as there is some kind of positive interaction, the children have the ability to see that their is another way other than violence. (Boxer, Dubow, Huesmann, 2009).
References:
Dubow, E., Huesmann, R. L., & Boxer, P. (2009). A Social-Cognitive-Ecological Framework for Understanding. Clinical Child & Family Psychology Review, 12(2), 113-126. Retrieved November 26, 2010, from Education Research Complete
Sunday, November 14, 2010
Child Development and Public Health
For this blog assignment I chose breastfeeding. This is a meaningful topic to me because, well when my son was born, I was 21, I didn't know the importance of breatstfeeding. It gives the baby nutrion that he wouldn't get otherwise. Not only is nutrion an importance but it also allows for a bonding experience between the mother and the baby. This is something that I feel I lacked with my son when he was an infant.
In many other parts of the world breastfeeding is common. Depending on the area of the country it is sometimes like the united states where, depending on the situation, it is frowned upon (like doing it in public). But in other areas, such as Africa this is a very common practice.
In the United States, breastfeeding is becoming more acceptable. A mother does not recieve "bad looks" if it is done in public, as she did in the past.
There has been much research done in breastfeeding for the baby and for the mother. Like I said before it is important for bonding and nutrion values. The mother is more likely to get the pregnancy weight off easier when she breastfeeds. I also believe (I didnot read this) that the mother will not suffer from postpartum depression if she breastfeeds.
If I could go back to when I gave birth, I definitely would have chose to breastfeed instead of bottle feed my son, at least for the first few months. I really feel that would have helped me bond with my son much easier.
In many other parts of the world breastfeeding is common. Depending on the area of the country it is sometimes like the united states where, depending on the situation, it is frowned upon (like doing it in public). But in other areas, such as Africa this is a very common practice.
In the United States, breastfeeding is becoming more acceptable. A mother does not recieve "bad looks" if it is done in public, as she did in the past.
There has been much research done in breastfeeding for the baby and for the mother. Like I said before it is important for bonding and nutrion values. The mother is more likely to get the pregnancy weight off easier when she breastfeeds. I also believe (I didnot read this) that the mother will not suffer from postpartum depression if she breastfeeds.
If I could go back to when I gave birth, I definitely would have chose to breastfeed instead of bottle feed my son, at least for the first few months. I really feel that would have helped me bond with my son much easier.
Saturday, November 6, 2010
Birthing Experience
I actually did not find out that I was pregnant with my son, until I was about 5 months pregnant. I was 21 years old, and I was very scared. I wasn't so much afraid of becoming a mother, I was afraid of the fact that I partied a lot when I was pregnant before I found out.
There wasn't much I could do by the time I found out, I was going to keep him either way, so I did not do the tests to determine anything.
I went to the hospital at 3:30 in the morning. I had him at 3:39 pm the following day. I had all back labor. I was 9 days late compared to my due date. I did have the the epidural, before that I tried demerol, but that did not help the pain at all. It just made me loopy. After the epidural I was so relaxed that they gave me Pitocin to help me have contractions again.
In between the contractions, I played "gameboy". I probably had the easiest pregnancy and delivery. I did not get sick once during pregnancy and I didn't start showing until I was about 7 months. I even wore the same size clothes until about that time.
Although, somehow during my pregnancy I ended up gaining 50 pounds. I now have a very intelligent fully healthy 8 year old son, and I thank God every day for allowing me to have a healthy son, despite the things I did before I knew I was pregant.
There wasn't much I could do by the time I found out, I was going to keep him either way, so I did not do the tests to determine anything.
I went to the hospital at 3:30 in the morning. I had him at 3:39 pm the following day. I had all back labor. I was 9 days late compared to my due date. I did have the the epidural, before that I tried demerol, but that did not help the pain at all. It just made me loopy. After the epidural I was so relaxed that they gave me Pitocin to help me have contractions again.
In between the contractions, I played "gameboy". I probably had the easiest pregnancy and delivery. I did not get sick once during pregnancy and I didn't start showing until I was about 7 months. I even wore the same size clothes until about that time.
Although, somehow during my pregnancy I ended up gaining 50 pounds. I now have a very intelligent fully healthy 8 year old son, and I thank God every day for allowing me to have a healthy son, despite the things I did before I knew I was pregant.
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